Choosing Cremation: Three Things You Should Know

When planning a funeral for a loved one who has chosen cremation, you may have a few questions. Your funeral director can guide you through the process and answer any questions you might have, but there are a few things you'll want to know as you begin to make arrangements. Use this guide to help you better understand the choices you have when planning the services for your loved one.

Understanding Viewing Options

The viewing options for cremation can be the same as those for traditional burial. You can rent a casket for the viewing, or you can choose a cremation casket, which can be used during the cremation process. If you prefer to have a more traditional funeral service, you can arrange for a wake the day before the funeral and a viewing on the day of the services. Some people prefer to have the cremation performed before the funeral. In this case, you can opt to have the cremation urn placed on a pedestal at the funeral service.

Preparation Of The Body

The funeral home will wash the body before preparing it for cremation or for the viewing. Embalming is an option if you will be holding a viewing and funeral service with an open casket several days after death, but it isn't always necessary. Your funeral home director can help you to determine which option is correct. As with a traditional burial, your loved one can be dressed in attire that you select. You may also be able to leave a personal item with your loved one during the cremation, but you will want to ask about this in advance.

Accompanying Your Loved One

Some people find comfort in a graveside service because it provides a way to say a final goodbye. With cremation services, you can get the same sense of closure by accompanying your loved one to the facility where the cremation will be performed. This can also provide peace of mind that you are getting back the proper cremains after the services are complete. Let your funeral director know if you wish to be present, but remember that you always have the option of leaving if you become overwhelmed emotionally.

With the help of your funeral director, you can create a funeral or memorial service that honors your loved one's life while still respecting his or her wishes to be cremated. Discuss the available options with your family, and work together to ensure that all of your relative's final wishes are respected throughout the wake, funeral, and cremation process.

For more information and options, contact a cremation service, such as American Cremation Society.